1. Have interests outside of work.
2. Attend functions associated with those interests.
3. Meet people with whom you share interests.
4. Find some subset of those people whom you enjoy interacting with enough to want to do so outside of large group functions, and, in the process.
5. Follow up on #4 by spending time with some of those people in a smaller setting and getting to know them better.
Match.com is a great place to find women to date and get yourself out there.
I also joined a local meetup and ended up meeting my wife there. We were friends for a couple of years before dating.
1. Have interests outside of work.
2. Attend functions associated with those interests.
3. Meet people with whom you share interests.
4. Find some subset of those people whom you enjoy interacting with enough to want to do so outside of large group functions, and, in the process.
5. Follow up on #4 by spending time with some of those people in a smaller setting and getting to know them better.