Int-to-int pairs are more likely to form in nature at specific watering holes.
For example, EA/rationalist is not quite my kind of community (altough I think highly of many of their writings), but an ACX meetup looks like a good place for introverts of a particular kind to come together.
I guess the trick is to find the right kind of place first.
Ughh, LessWrong is a bit more of a rationalist cult than anything - and I say that as somebody who is in the AIS & EA space. It's a huge problem that fields like AI Safety happen on that forum, as "normies" really get scared off by the stuff that's on there.
For example, EA/rationalist is not quite my kind of community (altough I think highly of many of their writings), but an ACX meetup looks like a good place for introverts of a particular kind to come together.
I guess the trick is to find the right kind of place first.