This. And I’ll be amenable to a team meeting to reflect and exchange on how the team have been doing. And even those demo meetings when a project got done. Or sharing knowledge and doing postmortems. I just don’t want the daily standups and the ritual retros. I never wait for these to share issues and provide updates.
I don’t think anyone actually listens to anything said in a standup. 99% just does not affect you in any way. If we have an issue we need help with we just send a message on teams or get on a call. The standup is pure ritual