Yes, except the "Focusing" practice and the last one about the violence.
Attachment is a weird thing, because it usually happens so early in life where there are no memories yet.
However, infants still internalize everything, they can feel, react to the environment and understand consequences of what their feelings tell them. "If I'm scared, then there's a high probability of something bad to be happen to me".
So, there are may not be rational memories to be linked to the problem 20-30 years later in life.
P.S.
Speaking from the personal experience - during the focusing practice I was able to verbally conceptualize these old feelings which became a part of my identity.
In the end, the crux was being an infant, a sensation of being blind, overfocused on touch and sounds, high sensation of exposedness and nakedness, sensation of mother's touch and realisation that she's unable to attune to me emotionally, like it's still a human touch, but similar to touching a stone.
Hence, the futile cry and scream to draw her attention out of fear to be protected.
To paraphraze, it felt like if now, I'd get tied (immobilized), blindfolded and left naked in the night Luisiana swamps.
It's weird, but I think, I actually understood why infants may cry and have a need to be seen and connected to. It seems to be so logical for me nowadays - they are humans too, after all.
Attachment is a weird thing, because it usually happens so early in life where there are no memories yet.
However, infants still internalize everything, they can feel, react to the environment and understand consequences of what their feelings tell them. "If I'm scared, then there's a high probability of something bad to be happen to me".
So, there are may not be rational memories to be linked to the problem 20-30 years later in life.
P.S.
Speaking from the personal experience - during the focusing practice I was able to verbally conceptualize these old feelings which became a part of my identity.
In the end, the crux was being an infant, a sensation of being blind, overfocused on touch and sounds, high sensation of exposedness and nakedness, sensation of mother's touch and realisation that she's unable to attune to me emotionally, like it's still a human touch, but similar to touching a stone.
Hence, the futile cry and scream to draw her attention out of fear to be protected.
To paraphraze, it felt like if now, I'd get tied (immobilized), blindfolded and left naked in the night Luisiana swamps.
It's weird, but I think, I actually understood why infants may cry and have a need to be seen and connected to. It seems to be so logical for me nowadays - they are humans too, after all.