Here's a thought, maybe try not living under the thumb of a woman to derive your happiness.

Today my toddler asked for candy and my wife almost gave her a piece (it's 7:45am). I said no. When the wife rebuked, I said, "stop, you're going to make our daughter fat like you." Mad her piping mad but guess what?

Happiness comes from within and you know what makes me happy? Having a healthy family that makes good choices. The happiest wives are those that get gentlely pushed around from time to time.

So in short, stop being a push over and maybe your wife won't leave you for a man that does.