Are you signalling that you’re looking for friends or partners?

IME women don’t react well to crudeness or excessive directness but with a silver tongue you can flower up “hi I’d like to escalate” and as long as you are clear (by ‘clear’ I mean with an amount of sexy deniability) then that will act as a quick filter.

Plus it takes cojones, which women also enjoy (IME YMMV IANAW)