It is likely to be quite effective if you talked yourself back down to earth. If you permit the crude phrasing, your "value" in the "dating market" peaked 20-15 years ago and you are well past your prime. (Yes, yes, "individuals", "not generalisations", "blah blah", but you are talking statistics when you've gone out with 120 men already).
Upon reading your post, it appears highly likely you are overestimating how clever you are.
Also, do not forget that almost nobody seeks a long term relationship (of the "looking for a mate" kind) where they do not feel "needed".
Another factor to consider is that grandiosity is often a symptom of a deep unmet need from childhood.
I hope you learn the humility which is necessary to find what you are looking for. Good luck!
Upon reading your post, it appears highly likely you are overestimating how clever you are.
Also, do not forget that almost nobody seeks a long term relationship (of the "looking for a mate" kind) where they do not feel "needed".
Another factor to consider is that grandiosity is often a symptom of a deep unmet need from childhood.
I hope you learn the humility which is necessary to find what you are looking for. Good luck!