and then the next line would be something like "It's a lot of fun" or "Straight/Cis allies are totally welcome" and if Jodie was like me the response is "I'm sure, but I just don't want to" and that's the end of it.
There is an oft-repeated idea that non-queer people are getting in any way harassed to alter their lifestyle by threat of accusations of homophobia, despite being unfounded.
How about Jodie says, "No thanks"
"Aw, why not?"
"Not really my thing"
"What, do you have a problem with gay people?"
I mean I see that as likely as any outcome from that conversation starter.