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If you're not well equipped to refute the claim, why do you feel equipped to call it horrible, a conspiracy theory, and a harm to society? The notion that women are more selective than men is something I consider neither harmful, nor particularly far fetched.


Because the attitudes about women that embodied in this kind of garbage are so abhorrent that they need to be called ou, debunked, and ridiculed. That's why my original point was that more attention needs to be drawn to this nonsense, so it doesn't quietly fester in corners of the internet.


If it needs to be debunked, why haven't you done so? You're spouting angry moralistic judgements but since you know this must be debunked and yet haven't done so, you're morally complicit. Until you can thoroughly debunk this, you are as much of the problem as anyone else. So come on, show us your data.


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Yeah, all you need to do is call them names and it's case closed right? Why not throw a "tech-bro" slur in there for good measure?

The real harm to society is people whose only retort is abusing others with the dogwhistle of the moment in the face of actual evidence.

Tinder stats for years have mirrored what is said in the article.

https://archive.is/fP3sH


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I don't identify with it at all. But I abhor the current trend of simply calling someone a name and pretending you've won on moral grounds, low-effort discourse like that should always be called out. It's dogwhistling plain and simple.

The comments above have one person being reasonable and trying to engage on the matter, the other is being outright obnoxious. You decide for yourself.


I think you're taking the response a very narrow set of people have to this dynamic and assuming a substantial contingent of readers are sharing this response. When I discuss the observations made in the original post with people, the overwhelming response is "of course" without a hint of controversy.




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