There's another dimension you can work on that I find seems to work much better.
Put your complaints in the form of a question. People will use whatever internal dialog they are comfortable with to unpack it in their own heads.
Doesn't work on everyone. There's a couple engineers at every job who will happily answer questions about their Rube Goldberg machines as if they were innocent questions instead of an invitation to be introspective.
Put your complaints in the form of a question. People will use whatever internal dialog they are comfortable with to unpack it in their own heads.
Doesn't work on everyone. There's a couple engineers at every job who will happily answer questions about their Rube Goldberg machines as if they were innocent questions instead of an invitation to be introspective.